The Journal of Pediatrics
Volume 154, Issue 6 , Pages 849-853 , June 2009

Candles in the Snow: Ritual and Memory for Siblings of Infants Who Died in the Intensive Care Nursery

  • Joanna H. Fanos, PhD

      Affiliations

    • Corresponding Author InformationReprint requests: Joanna H. Fanos, PhD, Hood Center for Children and Families, Department of Pediatrics, Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center, One Medical Center Drive, HB 7465, Lebanon, NH 03756
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  • George A. Little, MD
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  • William H. Edwards, MD

Received 26 August 2008 ,Revised 27 October 2008 ,Accepted 21 November 2008.

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 Supported by a Hearst Endowment grant from the Department of Pediatrics, Dartmouth Medical School.

 The authors declare no conflicts of interest.

PII: S0022-3476(08)01058-5

doi: 10.1016/j.jpeds.2008.11.053

The Journal of Pediatrics
Volume 154, Issue 6 , Pages 849-853 , June 2009

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